Is there not something known as the Geneva Convention that the US is/was a part of? Because the scum in the Mid east were not a part of what the Geneva Convention set forth, does not mean we abandon our morals and act like scum ourselves. IMO, doing so, places the US under a similar dark cloud.
With regard to your question regarding what is better torture or killing and what I would rather have happen to my Son. I don't believe you nor I are the ones to answer that question. I believe that there some forms of torture are so horrific that the one being tortured might choose a bullit through the head.
Our first President's army preceeded the Geneva Convention(s).
I have read the Geneva convention and it does not apply Al Queada. The Geneva Convention is very specific in how it discribes the soldiers and civilians that are covered under it (check out article 4). People like Al Queada are excluded for good reason. We should not extend the right of coverage under the Geneva convention to them, because to do so would undermine the civilized rules that it is trying to establish.