ES, I agree that this mess is gaining momentum and is beginning to spiral out of control. I also agree that force is an absolute. I just don't see the current cource as being effective. This surely doesn't mean that I welcome or invite defeat.
Perhaps that is why you should, stick to your major points and not directly respond to that particular charge, after all, you have already responded to it about 90 times already in the past.
P.S. I don't think you want defeat in Iraq, but I really am starting to think Pelosi and Co might. At this point, I'm starting to think they care more for the political points and their own personal power than they do for the welfare of our soldiers and our nation. But I must stress that this is just an opinion and I would love to see them prove me wrong.