Speedin - I am sorry to hear about your friends passing!! My thoughts are with you during this tough time....I hope you're still making the trip this weekend....if so, I am confident the camaraderie we enjoy will help the pain..
hugh jascock - Have some consideration for others and based on the lose of your brother I'm sure you can relate to the pain Speedin is currently experiencing - irregardless of the circumstances every life has positives....Also, as a parent you should know "if you don't have anything nice to say keep your mouth shut"