Dating question

[scarabrick2]

So I go out last night and this very attrative lady and I hit it off. Towards the end of the night I get thte currage to ask her if she wants to go out for drinks/dinner or ? she says yes and gives me her number.
Question:
So how long do I wait to call her for a date?
I'm new to the dating game(been 9.5yrs) as I just got divorced.
Any and all insite would be great.
Rick

[NorCal Gameshow]

there used to be an advice column here....:D
if you wait too long, she might forget who you are ...
i'd call this afternoon to make sure the number's good :wink:

[Paul65k]

If she's really interested....the sooner the better!
If she's not.....then it doesn't really matter.....does it??
One thing to remember after all these years is that this goes both ways......she is more than likely just as interested....or more than you are!!!
Just go for it...........the single worst thing that could happen is she could say no.....big deal. Odds are much higher that she will say yes and your on to date 1.
Go for it, make it happen and never look back!
Why do you think there are 2M women on Match.com????
Cheers! :cool:

[H20 Toie]

Don't call her give me the number and i will take care of her for you. :D

[Jyruiz]

The sooner you call her, the sooner you hit it. :D

[Red Horse]

Look, you got a 50/50 shot at the worst. CALL!!!
Its not like she is gonna take away your birthday or anything!!! :lightsabe

[Coleitis22]

So I go out last night and this very attrative lady and I hit it off. Towards the end of the night I get thte currage to ask her if she wants to go out for drinks/dinner or ? she says yes and gives me her number.
Question:
So how long do I wait to call her for a date?
I'm new to the dating game(been 9.5yrs) as I just got divorced.
Any and all insite would be great.
Rick
What are you waiting for? Step up to the plate and be a man. :hammerhea

[Ralph Brunt]

Lykis 101

[Mohave Vice]

Give her a call now!

[Flying Tiger]

Call her now but don't act over ambitious.
Then when dating begins,, stretch out the call,, remember, never look over ambitious.
See if it's a bum number.
Most the girls give out emails I meet,, then the phone#.

[termiteguy]

remember this if you dont hit it by the third date move on !!!!!!!!!!!!!
and dont spend alot of money on her just to see her naked :lightsabe

[topless]

Call her now and tell her you had a great time last night. Then tell you you'd love to see her again and ask her what her schedule looks like. If she says she's booked, it's a loss if she gives you a date or says tonight.....etc, you're in. Good luck. ;)

[1stepcloser]

Call her this afternoon, tell her you're checking to see if the number was good. Ask her out for this evening, if shes agrees, you're in.
If she declines citing a previous appointment, forget it.
Whatever you do, dont give her your number.... till after you date her.

[a catered life]

Look, you got a 50/50 shot at the worst. CALL!!!
Its not like she is gonna take away your birthday or anything!!! :lightsabe
well said call within 48 hours you want her to know your instrested but not desperate :frown:

[azgfboatgirl]

well said call within 48 hours you want her to know your instrested but not desperate :frown:
Is this why you guys have that silly 3 day rule.....At least you wait only 48 hours, apparently you're a little impatient.... :D :D :D

[Boozer]

Call her this afternoon, tell her you're checking to see if the number was good. Ask her out for this evening, if shes agrees, you're in.
You're kidding me right? Don't you DARE tell her you're checking to see if the number is good. If you say that it may come off as though you get a lot of bogus numbers.
I wouldn't call her today. I would wait until at least Sunday if not Monday. Women want what they can't have so give her the impression you're not an easy guy to get.

[a catered life]

Is this why you guys have that silly 3 day rule.....At least you wait only 48 hours, apparently you're a little impatient.... :D :D :D
lmao just like to get to the point :wink:

[azgfboatgirl]

lmao just like to get to the point :wink:
At least you're ahead of the game by a day! :D

[a catered life]

At least you're ahead of the game by a day! :D
lmoa :D

[SHAKE-YO-AZZ]

So I go out last night and this very attrative lady and I hit it off. Towards the end of the night I get thte currage to ask her if she wants to go out for drinks/dinner or ? she says yes and gives me her number.
Question:
So how long do I wait to call her for a date?
I'm new to the dating game(been 9.5yrs) as I just got divorced.
Any and all insite would be great.
Rick
dont call her for a week, then call her on a week day

[a catered life]

dont call her for a week, then call her on a week day
shake that only works if you looking to hit and run :p

[azgfboatgirl]

Women want what they can't have
you're not an easy guy to get.
LMAO on both counts......

[Boozer]

shake that only works if you looking to hit and run :p
When's the last time you dated? Maybe a lot has changed since then???
As stated in my previous post women want what they can NOT have. They love a challenge.
When you meet this woman again tell her as little about yourself as you possibly can. But find out as much as you can about her. This way you'll seem a bit mysterious and women love that. You should also be able to know within the first few dates if she's dateable or a total psycho that you dont want to keep around for more then a few freakish nights in HER bedroom.
NEVER give a psycho your home address. Also do NOT tell them where you work.
I had a woman go to the lengths of finding a job that was within 2 blocks of my work. She figured out my lunch schedule and scheduled hers to follow mine. EVERY day she would some how track me down on my lunch break and then bother me. It took a restraining order for her to get the point.

[blown428fe]

Look, you got a 50/50 shot at the worst. CALL!!!
Its not like she is gonna take away your birthday or anything!!! :lightsabe
Attractive lady or your hand this evening.

[azgfboatgirl]

When's the last time you dated? Maybe a lot has changed since then???
As stated in my previous post women want what they can NOT have. They love a challenge.
When you meet this woman again tell her as little about yourself as you possibly can. But find out as much as you can about her. This way you'll seem a bit mysterious and women love that. You should also be able to know within the first few dates if she's dateable or a total psycho that you dont want to keep around for more then a few freakish nights in HER bedroom.
NEVER give a psycho your home address. Also do NOT tell them where you work.
I had a woman go to the lengths of finding a job that was within 2 blocks of my work. She figured out my lunch schedule and scheduled hers to follow mine. EVERY day she would some how track me down on my lunch break and then bother me. It took a restraining order for her to get the point.
You must be very popular Boozer for her to go to such lengths to find you. :idea:

[topless]

When's the last time you dated? Maybe a lot has changed since then???
As stated in my previous post women want what they can NOT have. They love a challenge.
When you meet this woman again tell her as little about yourself as you possibly can. But find out as much as you can about her. This way you'll seem a bit mysterious and women love that. You should also be able to know within the first few dates if she's dateable or a total psycho that you dont want to keep around for more then a few freakish nights in HER bedroom.
NEVER give a psycho your home address. Also do NOT tell them where you work.
I had a woman go to the lengths of finding a job that was within 2 blocks of my work. She figured out my lunch schedule and scheduled hers to follow mine. EVERY day she would some how track me down on my lunch break and then bother me. It took a restraining order for her to get the point.You are only 24 so the girls (not women) that you date are alot different than what he is dating. You listen to too much Lykis 101. You know I have a bone to pick with you by the way that I won't mention here..

[Boozer]

You are only 24 so the girls (not women) that you date are alot different than what he is dating. You listen to too much Lykis 101. You know I have a bone to pick with you by the way that I won't mention here..
The stalker was 31. My current woman is 30. My woman "on the side" is 35.
Lykis is a fat fawkin POS that gets way more credit then he deserves.
You have my number.

[topless]

The stalker was 31. My current woman is 30. My woman "on the side" is 35.
Lykis is a fat fawkin POS that gets way more credit then he deserves.
You have my number.Let's not go there. How's it going in Denver anyway and how is my dog? I'll PM you or call you later. As for now I have to go rent a carpet shampooer thing.
And Don't listen to him. Call her and ask her out again if you really hit it off. :crossx:

[Boozer]

Let's not go there. How's it going in Denver anyway and how is my dog? I'll PM you or call you later. As for now I have to go rent a carpet shampooer thing.
And Don't listen to him. Call her and ask her out again if you really hit it off. :crossx:
Holland loves it here. Monday before last she got to play in a foot of snow and had a blast. Anyhow.. Back to the initial subject at hand dont wanna be a thread jacker.

[Badger301]

You met her last nite...call her tuesday or wednesday....never call over a weekend...your busy even if your not..Watch the movie Swingers

[MayDaze]

I agree with Boozer.... Good Advice

[Kilrtoy]

If you like her, call her, she may go out tonight and find someone else, Dont let the sands of time slip by...
CALL HER NOW......

[Kilrtoy]

Lykos 101, is for losers....
I really wonder what these guys look like that call in....
Some of the crap he says is funny, but please, most of his lines are COMMON SENSE....for both sexes

[One Eyed Jack]

its a little late now
but instead of asking her for her number
you should have asked her
if she wanted to go to your house and ****
then instead of wondering when to call her
youd be wondering what to do
with all the crap she left behind
earrings scrunchies thong etc

[Boozer]

Lykos 101, is for losers....
I really wonder what these guys look like that call in....
Some of the crap he says is funny, but please, most of his lines are COMMON SENSE....for both sexes
F*ck Lykus.
If you want advice on what women want make friends with some real hotties. Don't ask them what they look for because what they tell you they look for and what they really DO look for are completely different things. OBSERVE them and pay close attention to the men they date and let your OWN observations be your guiding light in the never ending pursuit for love or just a quick one night stand.

[mike37]

all I know is if you gota play games with a girl like boozer says
then she isn't one you would want to keep

[Red Horse]

You got the # over the weekend, call her Tuesday about 5 and ask her, "You got any plans for dinner? Want some?" Then at dinner make plans for the weekend. Tell her you got a boat!!! Women LOVE boats!!! Take her to Catalina. I know it will be cold, but that is OK. Body heat is better shared!!

[Silver]

How about? You treat her just like you want to be treated!
If it's real... then no games from the start gets you off on the right foot!

[Kilrtoy]

How about? You treat her just like you want to be treated!
If it's real... then no games from the start gets you off on the right foot!
What a novel concept and you heard that from one of the hot ladies of HB ....

[One Eyed Jack]

How about? You treat her just like you want to be treated!
If it's real... then no games from the start gets you off on the right foot!
if this was 1890
does he want it or not
you can hit it till the oscar is mired
but when she knows you like her
she expects you to spend money on her azz

[Boozer]

if this was 1890
does he want it or not
you can hit it till the oscar is mired
but when she knows you like her
she expects you to spend money on her azz
Spoken like a true gentleman whos had his still beating heart ripped from his chest and crushed right in front of him.
Women aren't like they use to be.

[1Shockwaveguy]

So I go out last night and this very attrative lady and I hit it off. Towards the end of the night I get thte currage to ask her if she wants to go out for drinks/dinner or ? she says yes and gives me her number.
Question:
So how long do I wait to call her for a date?
I'm new to the dating game(been 9.5yrs) as I just got divorced.
Any and all insite would be great.
Rick
Dont listen to these guys. Or at least most of them. Do NO CALL HER THIS WEEKEND. Call her on Monday night. Set plans with her for Wed. or Thurs. because you already have plans for the following weekend. ;)

[Kim Hanson]

So I go out last night and this very attrative lady and I hit it off. Towards the end of the night I get thte currage to ask her if she wants to go out for drinks/dinner or ? she says yes and gives me her number.
Question:
So how long do I wait to call her for a date?
I'm new to the dating game(been 9.5yrs) as I just got divorced.
Any and all insite would be great.
Rick
Hell, if I met a girl at the bar~~~she got my number after leaving my house~~~~~you snooze ya ~~lose.........( . )( . )......... :cool:

[HCS]

So I go out last night and this very attrative lady and I hit it off. Towards the end of the night I get thte currage to ask her if she wants to go out for drinks/dinner or ? she says yes and gives me her number.
Question:
So how long do I wait to call her for a date?
I'm new to the dating game(been 9.5yrs) as I just got divorced.
Any and all insite would be great.
Rick
First thing you do is hit it right a way. After she thinks about it, it's too late. :chi:

[Kim Hanson]

First thing you do is hit it right a way. After she thinks about it, it's too late. :chi:
I like the way you think, great minds have to stay( forums ) to speak out to the world :D tell them how to do it right or get to the back of the bus!........( . )( . )..........Reverend Kim :D :D :D

[CA Stu]

If you have to ask when to call a woman on a mesage board, you should shoot your computer and go call that babe immediately. Go out and have some fun.
I guarantee if I was single, there's no way in hell I'd be at home on a fine Saturday evening!
If you take any of Boober's idiotic advice, you should slam your penis in a car door repeatedly.
Why not go out, play the field until you find someone that will make your life hell, get married again and then get back online, like the rest of us miserable bastards?
Thanks
CA Stu
PS "Women aren't like they use to be"? Who the hell do you think you are, Burt frickin' Reynolds? :messedup:

[CA Stu]

You must be very popular Boozer for her to go to such lengths to find you. :idea:
Moms are like that. :wink:

[steelcomp]

Playing games...yeah, that's the way to start off! The way I see it, if you wanna play games, play games. Player...looser... it's the same. If you don't want to play games, then don't. Just remember, if you play games, you'll be played with. You get what you give. You'll be able to tell if she's playing, or straight up, in very short time. It doesn't matter when you call, unless you're making a game out of it. It does matter why you call. Maybe you need to figure that out before you call.
Don't be phony, and don't pretend to be someone you're not. If you're looking for a trophy or an image, then be like Boozer, and play the game. If you're looking for a person, and one that you're compatible with, then be a person. The compatibility will be there, or it won't, but it won't be phony and based on lies. That's no way to start off.
Just my .02, in '05. :D

[Forkin' Crazy]

Just call her sunday afternoon and tell her that you were thinking of her and what a good time you had. The wish her a nice day and that you'll call her early in the week. Tuesday or so.
I know how it is. I was with one for 8. I could tell stories, because chances are better then not that you will run up on a :crossx: crazy one :crossx: .
:220v: