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JetBoatRich
08-16-2007, 10:01 PM
My hero has passed away. The man who raised me, taught me many life lessons is now gone.
a very difficult day and the worst in my life, missed saying goodbye by 6 minutes as I drove from work to be by his side.
I am also lucky to have a awesome wife and family to help me through these tough times.

Ultracrazy
08-16-2007, 10:02 PM
Sorry the loss JBR. God Bless

HPBoats83
08-16-2007, 10:02 PM
Very sorry for your loss. I already have gone through what you are going through now. Be strong.
James

DILLIGAF
08-16-2007, 10:02 PM
Sorry to hear that Rich.
RIP

Jbb
08-16-2007, 10:04 PM
Sorry to hear Rich.....

Beautiful Noise
08-16-2007, 10:05 PM
Sorry for your loss Rich,You and your Family will be in our Prayers.

Baja Big Dog
08-16-2007, 10:06 PM
J B R...Mines 85, and I gotta tell you I dont know how you must feel right now, I cant even imagine.
Great to have family around...
Tell the pop to say hi to my mom!!
Here's a smile :D

C-2
08-16-2007, 10:06 PM
Hang in there, godspeed to your pops.

'78 gt boat
08-16-2007, 10:07 PM
Sorry for your loss. I'm sure he's looking down on you right now

Rexone
08-16-2007, 10:07 PM
Very sorry to hear Rich. Hang in there and try to focus on all the good times. It will be tough for awhile. May your father rest in peace and you gain peace in your memories of him as well. Lean on your family and friends and you will get through it.

Tom Brown
08-16-2007, 10:08 PM
I'm sorry, Rich.

Big Kahunaa
08-16-2007, 10:09 PM
sorry for you loss keep your head up

BigDoug
08-16-2007, 10:09 PM
Hang in there Rich !!.....tell the family hello from us. :)

Mrs 2LKHVSU
08-16-2007, 10:10 PM
Our thoughts are with you.

PaPaG
08-16-2007, 10:21 PM
sorry for your loss Rich, remember him in your heart and he will be with you forever....:(

boatsnblondes
08-16-2007, 10:24 PM
Rich, so sorry to hear of this....he musta been a helluva great guy to raise one like you bro...your in our thoughts and prayers up here...The Good Lord bless and keep you.....<B&C>

topless
08-16-2007, 10:25 PM
I'm sorry for your loss. My dad is getting up there in years and I know the day will come for me as well. Keep strong and as what was said earlier, keep the fond memories alive.

dicudmore
08-16-2007, 10:28 PM
sorry for your loss Rich :(

Dan Lorenze
08-16-2007, 10:30 PM
I'm so sorry to hear the news Rich.. I'm really close to my Dad , I know how you must feel..

Jyruiz
08-16-2007, 10:32 PM
My condolences go out to your family.

Havasu Carrera
08-16-2007, 10:34 PM
Hey man the one thing most have forgot to mention is that your dad will now be able to spend every moment of every day with you. I can only imagine what this might be like. God bless ya man. Oh and a certain (hero) song comes to mind. (I'm in a better place now?) Take care Tim

ol guy
08-16-2007, 10:44 PM
Stay strong and always remember the good times. It would be as he would want it. The circle of life sucks when the heart is involved. NOTHING BUT LOVE AND CARE.

Wicked Performance Boats
08-16-2007, 10:58 PM
Sorry to hear the news. My dad was my hero too. Still is. Next Father's Day will be tough. But spend that day honoring him. Pat:idea:

Spotondl
08-16-2007, 10:59 PM
:( :( :(

Magic34
08-16-2007, 11:00 PM
Sorry for your loss and you are in our prayers. RIP

riverbound
08-16-2007, 11:06 PM
So sorry to hear that :( I couldnt even begin to imagine what you are going through.

Big Inch
08-16-2007, 11:25 PM
Rich,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. My father passed away almost exactly 1 year ago so unfortunately I can relate to what you feel. Hands down, the hardest thing I have ever done in my life is standing up in the church to say a few words about him. God bless you and your family in these hard times.
RIP hero.

Kachina26
08-16-2007, 11:30 PM
My hero has passed away. The man who raised me, taught me many life lessons is now gone.
a very difficult day and the worst in my life, missed saying goodbye by 6 minutes as I drove from work to be by his side.
I am also lucky to have a awesome wife and family to help me through these tough times.
Sorry to hear that, I went through it at 15. My wife went through it at 34, it's not easy at any age.

Squeezing Spectra
08-16-2007, 11:40 PM
Rich sorry to hear of your loss :(
Bruce

Kilrtoy
08-17-2007, 12:22 AM
Sorry to hear about this Rich.
Godspeed

Some Kind Of Monster
08-17-2007, 12:44 AM
Very sorry to hear that bud. I'll be thinking about you tonight. Get some sleep.
Billy

RhinoWood
08-17-2007, 03:14 AM
Sooo sorry to hear that Rich, hang in there buddy.
We are here for ya if you need anything.
Matt

Trailer Park Casanova
08-17-2007, 03:38 AM
Sounds like he was a good guy Rich, He did a good job raising you.
Sorry to read.

Jordy
08-17-2007, 03:43 AM
That sucks Rich. Sorry to hear it. :( :( :(

charlyox
08-17-2007, 03:46 AM
Sorry for your loss. Hang tough.

RiverOtter
08-17-2007, 03:50 AM
My hero has passed away. The man who raised me, taught me many life lessons is now gone.
a very difficult day and the worst in my life, missed saying goodbye by 6 minutes as I drove from work to be by his side.
I am also lucky to have a awesome wife and family to help me through these tough times.
Very sorry to hear.

Mod VP
08-17-2007, 04:19 AM
I'm sorry for your loss Rich,I know how you feel.I lost my mom 2 months ago
:(

OGShocker
08-17-2007, 04:31 AM
Rich,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Mark

FORMER RAIDERETTE MRS ELIMINATED SPRINTER
08-17-2007, 04:53 AM
Oh Rich I'm so sorry to hear about your dad god bless you and your family I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers and let Us know up you need anything we will be there for you guys no matter what

havasu5150
08-17-2007, 04:57 AM
:( :( :(
Very sorry for your loss. I went through that a fews years ago. It's not an easy thing to do. Godspeed

raff
08-17-2007, 04:58 AM
My hero has passed away. The man who raised me, taught me many life lessons is now gone.
a very difficult day and the worst in my life, missed saying goodbye by 6 minutes as I drove from work to be by his side.
I am also lucky to have a awesome wife and family to help me through these tough times.
So sorry about your loss, just keep your family close and know that your family and friends are by your side. Give yourself, Steph, little Rich and Missy a big hug from me and Sara.
You and your family will be in our thoughts.

BOATDOC54626
08-17-2007, 04:59 AM
I haven't met you, but I have been down the same road. Hard to believe right now, but as each day passes, the hurt will get a little less and be replaced by solid memories of all the good between, very sorry..

rrrr
08-17-2007, 05:02 AM
Please accept my condolences, Rich. I hope you will recover from the pain and grief quickly. May you find comfort in the sweet memories and joyful times spent with your dad.

shueman
08-17-2007, 05:04 AM
Sorry for your loss...:( mine passed a year ago April...

ratso
08-17-2007, 05:10 AM
Sorry Rich...:(

Kyote
08-17-2007, 05:12 AM
Rich
Sorry to hear of the passing of your father. My father passed away 33 years ago. I still miss him as I know, from your words, that you will miss your father as well.
God Bless you and your family

Hardly Satisfied
08-17-2007, 05:13 AM
Very sorry to hear.

Garrddogg
08-17-2007, 05:14 AM
Rich, Im sorry to hear of your loss.

TCN
08-17-2007, 05:32 AM
Very sorry to hear this. Hang in there and be the hero to your kids that your dad was to you. Nick

adjones419
08-17-2007, 05:34 AM
Rich,
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Stay strong.
Adam

ahhell
08-17-2007, 05:36 AM
Very sorry about your loss, its never easy but it sounds like you have great family support.
Bob

BILLY.B
08-17-2007, 05:47 AM
Sorry for your loss JBR. My dad passed away 14yrs ago and I still miss him everyday. He'll always be with you in memory and no one can take that from you. Prayers to you and your family.

hot_diggity_dog
08-17-2007, 05:53 AM
Rich sorry to hear of your loss.:( :( remember the good times;) and stay positive.;)
He was a great man!!!!:)
HDD:(

Waist Deep
08-17-2007, 06:11 AM
Sorry about the news Rich. Lost my Mom unexpextedly 4 years ago @ 59 yrs old.
Hope you had some good times with him.

Flyinbowtie
08-17-2007, 06:20 AM
Few things in life are as tough as what you are going through right now.
I was 24 when I lost my father, that was almost 24 years ago. Time has dulled the pain, but it is always there. He lives in your memories, and you will feel his presence in your life as time moves on.
God Bless you and your family at this most difficult time.

jh4rt
08-17-2007, 06:26 AM
Sorry to hear it.

MRS FLYIN VEE
08-17-2007, 06:27 AM
Rich we are so sorry for your loss. I am sure he was a great man and he has raised a great son. :( you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers to help ease the pain.
Those we love must someday pass
beyond our present sight...
Must leave us and the world we know without their radiant light.
But we know that like a candle
their lovely light will surely shine
To brighten up another place
more perfect... more divine.
And in the realm of Heaven
where they shine so warm
and bright.
Our loved ones live forevermore
in God ’s eternal light.
Don’t think of him as gone away,
his journey’s just begun,
life holds so many facets
this earth is only one.
Just think of him as resting
from the sorrow and the tears
in a place of warmth and comfort,
where there are no days and years.
Think how he must be wishing
that we could know today
how nothing but our sadness
can really pass away.
And think of him as living
in the hearts of those he touched,
for nothing loved is ever lost,
and he was loved so much
may he Rest In Peace. :(

Mrs. Bordsmnj
08-17-2007, 06:47 AM
Terrible news! :( I know I do not know you but I am so sorry for your loss. :(

Lightning
08-17-2007, 06:50 AM
:( Hang in there Rich...lots of good memories I'm sure.

Mrs. 20
08-17-2007, 06:56 AM
I am so sorry for your lost. :( :( :(

RitcheyRch
08-17-2007, 07:09 AM
So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

wright27
08-17-2007, 07:09 AM
Sorry for you Loss. Hang in there, I was there a few years ago, It always helped me to remember the good times and creat laughter.

Mrs.Racer277
08-17-2007, 07:11 AM
My hero has passed away. The man who raised me, taught me many life lessons is now gone.
a very difficult day and the worst in my life, missed saying goodbye by 6 minutes as I drove from work to be by his side.
I am also lucky to have a awesome wife and family to help me through these tough times.
Rich I am so sorry to hear of your loss. God Speed to your Father. You and the family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

BDMar
08-17-2007, 07:15 AM
Sorry for your loss. God Bless.

yopengo
08-17-2007, 07:19 AM
My condolences go out to you and your family. :(

Big Warlock
08-17-2007, 07:20 AM
Rich:
God Speed to your Dad! He will be waiting for you on the other side!

Hustler
08-17-2007, 07:26 AM
Man I'm real sorry to hear this Rich. You and your family are in our prayers.

MBlaster
08-17-2007, 07:29 AM
JBR, sorry for your loss. Take solice that you had him for a long time.
I lost my dad to cancer when I was only 20.
Take time to feel the pain. It will hurt less every day.
He'll be waiting for you.

LHC30Victory
08-17-2007, 07:29 AM
Rich, I am very sorry for your loss and hope you and your family recover from the sadness quickly.
Try to remember to honor him by passing on the good that he stood for.

FOREVER2DOXIES
08-17-2007, 07:33 AM
so sorry to hear the news. ritcheyrch and i are keeping your family in thoughts and prayers. :(

Tremor Therapy
08-17-2007, 07:40 AM
Condolences to you and your family. There are no words for the loss of your father Rich. I lost my dad when I was 27, and there is not a day that goes by when I don't think of him. I'll be saying a prayer for you and yours.
Alan

Mandelon
08-17-2007, 07:41 AM
Sosrry to hear the sad new Rich. You were lucky to have him around so long. Think about the good times and do not dwell on the end.
I lost my dad ten years ago and my mom two months ago. The weight of your heavy heart will fade over time. You can still talk to him, he is listening.

THOR
08-17-2007, 07:43 AM
I hate to hear this JBR. From the way you speak of him, you were a blessed man to have him in your life. Godspeed to your Dad.
My condolences to you and your family.

DesertGirl
08-17-2007, 07:49 AM
Very sad news, my folks are getting old, and I could not imagine.........
Remember the good times to get you through the rough stuff.
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.
-Kathy

River Lynchmob
08-17-2007, 07:51 AM
I am very sorry for your loss.

eliminatedsprinter
08-17-2007, 08:07 AM
I am very sad to hear of you and your family's loss.
You do have a GREAT family and you also have many friends who care a great deal about you.
Hang in there Buddy
Steve

SummitKarl
08-17-2007, 08:18 AM
My hero has passed away. The man who raised me, taught me many life lessons is now gone.
a very difficult day and the worst in my life, missed saying goodbye by 6 minutes as I drove from work to be by his side.
I am also lucky to have a awesome wife and family to help me through these tough times.
remember those, practice those and thats how your father will always be there for you;)
My condolences JBR:(

MissB
08-17-2007, 08:33 AM
Very sorry for your loss, stay strong. My thoughts are with you.

Debbolas
08-17-2007, 08:37 AM
I'm so sorry for your troubles Rich. Please let us know if we can do anything.
Deb & Matt

soulboater#1
08-17-2007, 08:38 AM
You and your family will be in our prayers.

Screaming Pete
08-17-2007, 08:52 AM
JBR and family sorry for your loss, celebrate the things he's taught you and relish the time spent. RIP

jbtrailerjim
08-17-2007, 08:55 AM
Sorry for your loss, Rich. My condolences to you and your family. :(

92562
08-17-2007, 09:00 AM
Remember the good times and know that people you don't even know are touched by this and have you in their thoughts. I lost both Mom & Dad just before last Thanksgiving and I can tell you that it does get worse before it gets better. Keep the family close and do something to enjoy every day. Time will heal, but will not replace.
God bless you and your family during this tough time.
----Rob

beaverretriever
08-17-2007, 09:20 AM
Sorry to hear. I don't know what I would do without my father. You and your family have our blessings.

lucky
08-17-2007, 09:29 AM
Sry to hear Rich !!!!!!! Man anything you need - Your have your ***boat family :D

HalletDave
08-17-2007, 09:32 AM
I am very sad for you and your family Rich.
I feel your loss as I have been without my dad since 1972.
Stay strong.

atomickitn
08-17-2007, 09:58 AM
very sorry to hear of the loss of your dad.....:( ....it is never easy to say good bye to the person whom you have looked up to in life ...

HemiDude
08-17-2007, 10:03 AM
Sorry for your loss Rich, it's hard I know, I lost my pop last year-he lived in Havasu too far away to see every day. Hold him in your heart, he's there every day now. Bless you and your family.

Her454
08-17-2007, 10:13 AM
My hero has passed away. The man who raised me, taught me many life lessons is now gone.
a very difficult day and the worst in my life, missed saying goodbye by 6 minutes as I drove from work to be by his side.
I am also lucky to have a awesome wife and family to help me through these tough times.
JetBoatRich, Im sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Traci

P-Money
08-17-2007, 11:07 AM
My old man passed away unexpectedly a few years back as a result of a boat accident. He didn't get to see me get married, or see his first grandchild....still get teary eyed when I think of him today. While I didn't beleive it at the time, time does help heal wounds. Hang in there, it'll get better.

Playinwithfyr
08-17-2007, 12:35 PM
Sorry for your loss! May you find peace at this difficult time.

lovemyultra
08-17-2007, 12:54 PM
Rich
If you need to shoot the shit or just hang out or whatever hang in there budddy sorry for this it is never easy
SEE YA DJ

Desert Rat
08-17-2007, 01:26 PM
Keep your head up buddy. Sorry for your loss...

SOCALDETAIL1
08-17-2007, 01:32 PM
My hero has passed away. The man who raised me, taught me many life lessons is now gone.
a very difficult day and the worst in my life, missed saying goodbye by 6 minutes as I drove from work to be by his side.
I am also lucky to have a awesome wife and family to help me through these tough times.
Sorry about the loss Rich. Never say goodbye you will see him one day again. Mark

syke-o
08-17-2007, 02:26 PM
like everyone has already said.. sorry for the loss of your father.. my father is also my hero and someone i truly look up to, and i can only imagine how hard it is for you...

beernut
08-17-2007, 02:35 PM
sorry about your loss, life is to short ,my son and i are best friends and i feel your pain, best wishes to you and your's

catalinaskiracer
08-17-2007, 02:35 PM
JBR, Very sorry to hear of your loss! I lost mine last September, my thoughts and condolences to you and your family. Cheerish all the good times you and he had. It does get easier as time passes and keep his spirit alive in you.
My hero has passed away. The man who raised me, taught me many life lessons is now gone.
a very difficult day and the worst in my life, missed saying goodbye by 6 minutes as I drove from work to be by his side.
I am also lucky to have a awesome wife and family to help me through these tough times.

77charger
08-17-2007, 05:16 PM
Sorry to hear that i know the feeling i lost my dad to cancer . :( will be 3 years next month.you will always think of him everyday no matter what

Wet Dream
08-17-2007, 05:49 PM
Rich, I'm sorry for your loss. Its devistating losing a parent. When my father passed away, my wife and I flew cross country to be with him, only to miss him by 15 minutes. My sister was there and he knew I was coming. That has managed to somewhat haunt me in the last 2 years, but I try to deal with it as best I can and try to realize that it was out of my control. I wish you strength through this.

HighRoller
08-17-2007, 07:12 PM
Rich we only met once so I won't pretend to be good buddies with you. But I did lose my Mom last year so I know what you're going through. There's not a lot besides family that can reduce the pain of losing a parent. But the one thing that can help you move forward is to remember all the effort your Dad went through to raise you. The best way to pay tribute to him is to do your best to live a good life. Judging from the quality of your kids when I met them several years ago you're already doing that. Your Dad should be proud and will continue to do so as he watches over you and your family. God Bless...

GottaJet
08-17-2007, 07:23 PM
I am very sorry for your loss. God Bless

Parker Dreamin
08-17-2007, 07:35 PM
stay strong bud.

Steamin' Rice
08-17-2007, 07:37 PM
Sorry for your loss

skygod73
08-17-2007, 07:41 PM
God bless you in your time of need.

HighRoller
08-17-2007, 08:03 PM
The other thing I've heard from friends is how their kids react. I know your kids just lost their Grandpa, but remember they are watching you to see how you deal with this loss. Do your best to show them a mixture of strength, compassion and love. It's strange how even though your life seems to have stopped, when you have kids the "camera" of life is always on!

TheLurker
08-17-2007, 08:23 PM
My condolances go out to you and your family Rich

Devil's Advocate
08-17-2007, 08:37 PM
So sorry for your loss. It's difficult to lose a parent. One day at a time.
God Bless.

work2play
08-17-2007, 08:42 PM
My prayers are with you. Lost my Mother 6 weeks ago. I feel your pain.

JetBoatRich
08-17-2007, 09:10 PM
I wanted to thank all of you for your replies, phone calls and PM's. It is aweosme to have a support group like you.
It has been a very difficult last two days and it will take time.
Special thanks to My wife is who became very close to my dad over the last 10 years after he had his first stroke. Thank you honey.

JetBoatRich
08-21-2007, 08:38 AM
woke up this morning knowing it would be the toughest day in my life. Saying good bye to my dad in his service this afternoon.
Miss You Dad
http://www.***boat.com/image_center/data/500/dad2.jpg

OutCole'd
08-21-2007, 08:40 AM
Just saw this thread, I'm very sorry for your families loss Rich! Take care.:(

Sherpa
08-21-2007, 09:28 AM
very sorry to hear about your loss.......
--Sherpa

redi4fun
08-21-2007, 09:39 AM
I dread the day I will get that call like no other.
Take care Rich and may your father rest in peace.

Jetdriver
08-21-2007, 02:22 PM
Hey bud, it was good to talk with you earlier today. You know you and the family are in our thoughts. If I dont see you tonight I will see you before the week is over. Im sorry I didnt know sooner then today or I would have been there for you guys a little sooner.
Love all of you very much!
Shawn, Steph, Ty and Brooke

little rowe boat
08-21-2007, 02:30 PM
This is the first that I have seen of this thread. I am very sorry for your loss. The pain will eventually subside and then you will be left with all the wonderful memories of your dad. I still think about my dad everyday.

Scream
08-21-2007, 02:34 PM
I'm sorry for your loss Rich, I lost both of my parents in the last few years and it's a terrible inevitability. He was a very wealth man to have such a loving son.

hoolign
08-21-2007, 04:33 PM
Sorry to hear Rich! :(

Biglue
08-21-2007, 04:36 PM
I'm sorry to hear about your father's passing friend. I know what it's like to lose a parent and one's family is a great help thru these times. God Bless thru these hard times.
Louie.

Mrs.Moose on the loose
08-21-2007, 06:37 PM
I know we have never met and I just read this post, The Moose Clan is very sorry to hear about you losing your Hero, We to have lost our dads and it's very hard. I have been trying to deal with it for almost 7 years, so the only thing I can say is lean on your wifes shoulder and be strong. Our prayers are with you and the family.
Mrs. Moose

CVX20
08-21-2007, 06:43 PM
Rich I am really sorry about your loss.
Fred

kraig
08-21-2007, 06:50 PM
Sorry to hear about your dad. You are so lucky to have a wife and all your friends here.
God bless.

purrfecttremor
08-21-2007, 08:11 PM
Sorry to here Rich.