You are not alone! EVERYONE has this trouble with the 455s!!
There are many ways to help with this problem. Much internet text is devoted to just this issue. The fix seems to be the additions of oil restrictors. And, do NOT run a high volume oil pump, you already have more than enough. Some people work on modifications to help the rocker chambers drain.. I carry paper towls and basically do the denial thing. "Naw, its not leaking much. No no no, just keep looking ahead, don't look back in there..
Glastron Guy, I think that's what he goes as in this forum, ask him. He's solved this paticular delema in his 455 powered boat.
-jim lee