I agree Suey. This forum is wonderful because there are incredibly wonderful people here. I figure if I cheered you up in any way at all I'm just guilty of doing what's been done for me over and over again by so many kind and funny people here - yourself included. Spending time having fun with you and Deb tonight boosted my spirits too. It's all good. I hope the heavy stuff lightens up for you soon. In the meantime the Sandbar is a great place to at least take a break from it for a moment ... or more (as warranted).