The white plastic seals are built by design to drip every few seconds to lube the packing. If you tighten them up too tight it will smoke the packing, then they will leak. The black glob could be the the result of melted plastic and packing.
The longer hose length is to minimize side load on "any type of seal" that is normally present due to slight shaft log vs. prop shaft mis-alignment. It simply makes them wear less. Unless you're carrying the nose to a point where the shaft hole is out of the water for long distances you should not have a problem with the seal area seeing water.